Episode 298: Stop Waiting for a Mentor to Magically Appear—Start Here Instead

Written By Erin Diehl
 
 
 

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In this episode of Workday Playdate, Erin is flipping the mentorship script. Forget cold DMs and forced coffee chats, this convo is about finding the right mentor your way. Whether you're launching your career or deep in a pivot, Erin’s five-step framework blends strategy with heart, improv-style. 

Mentorship Is a Relationship, Not a Transaction 

With her signature mix of practicality and play, Erin breaks down: 

  • How to become “mentee material” (hint: curiosity + follow-through) 

  • Why your ideal mentor is probably already in your orbit 

  • What mutual benefit really looks like 

  • How to build trust over time (no networking event required) 

  • Why a board of advisors > one magical mentor 

Mentorship That Actually Feels Human 

This isn’t about sucking up or waiting for someone to tap you on the shoulder. It’s about showing up, giving value, and building relationships that last. 

Whether you’re feeling stuck, ambitious, or just craving some career connection, this episode gives you the tools—and the mindset—to stop waiting and start reaching out. 

Because every workday (even the mentor-hunting ones) can still be a playdate. 

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No, You Hang Up First (Let’s Keep Connecting) 

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